The Complete Sex Doll Installation Guide

Your doll arrives carefully packed to protect every part during shipping. Before doing anything else, watch this video to learn how to safely remove her from the packaging without scratching the skin or bending the skeleton joints at an awkward angle.

Lay a soft blanket or thick towel on the floor or bed before sliding the doll out of the box — TPE and silicone skin can pick up surface marks on rough floors. Take your time, and have a second person assist if the doll is full-sized, as they can be quite heavy. Once unboxed, inspect all components before discarding the packaging. Keep the original box — it is the safest way to store or transport your doll in the future.

Before you begin attaching any components, set up your support stand first. Having your doll in a stable upright position makes every subsequent installation step — particularly the head and eyes — significantly easier and safer. The dual-support stand distributes the doll’s weight across two contact points, preventing tipping during setup.

This video demonstrates how to assemble the stand, position your doll correctly, and secure it safely. Most support stands are compatible with all standard full-size dolls regardless of brand — check the listed weight limit against your doll’s specifications before use.

Attaching the head is one of the most important steps in the setup process. Done incorrectly, it can damage the neck connector, scratch the skin around the seam, or leave the head sitting unevenly. This video covers the full process — both attaching and detaching — so you are confident in both directions from day one.

Most dolls use an internal neck bolt that threads into a receiver on the torso. The key rule is to align the bolt straight before applying any rotation. Never force it if you feel resistance — a smooth, gentle twist is all that is needed. A correctly installed head will sit flush with no gap or wobble.

M16 neck connectors come in two styles — Set Screw and Quick Connector. Watch both videos above to identify which type your doll uses, then follow the matching method. The set screw version requires a small hex key (included in your accessory bag), while the quick connector clicks in and releases with a simple push-button mechanism.

After installation, the head should sit perfectly flush against the neck with no visible gap on any side. If you notice any tilt or instability, remove and repeat — the connector simply did not fully engage. This is completely normal on the first attempt and takes only moments to correct.

The eye direction is one of the first things you will want to personalise after the head is installed. A forward gaze, a soft upward glance, or a subtle sideways look each create a very different expression and feel. This video shows how to reposition the eyeballs precisely and safely without touching the painted iris surface with your fingers.

Most doll eyes are held in place by a gentle tension mechanism inside the socket. Use the small adjustment tool from your accessory bag — not your fingers — as skin oils can gradually dull and cloud the eye surface over time.

Want to change your doll’s eye colour entirely — from brown to blue, green to grey? Most modern sex dolls have user-replaceable eyes, and the swap takes just a few minutes once you know the right technique. This video demonstrates how to safely remove the existing eyes and seat new ones without damaging the eyelid skin or socket.

Replacement eyes are widely available in a broad range of colours and styles. Always confirm your doll’s eye size (typically 14mm or 16mm) before ordering, as this varies between manufacturers. You can find replacement eyes and accessories in our shop.

Some premium silicone heads — such as those from XYCOLO — feature a mechanical eye system rather than the standard tension-fitted eyeballs covered in the previous two sections. Instead of repositioning each eye individually, both eyes are mounted on an internal linked mechanism, allowing them to move together smoothly and hold their position — much like a real gaze. This video demonstrates the correct technique for directing mechanical eyes.

The movement itself is simple: guide the gaze gently in the direction you want using very light pressure, and the mechanism will hold the new position on its own. Because the eyes are connected internally, you never need to adjust them one at a time, and they will always remain symmetrical. The most important rule is restraint — the mechanism is engineered for smooth, light movement, and forcing it past its natural range can damage the internal linkage.

If you ordered your doll with the removable vagina option, the insert ships separately in your accessory box and needs to be installed before first use. The technique differs slightly between materials, so watch the video that matches your doll — Option A for silicone dolls and Option B for TPE dolls. In both cases, the goal is the same: the insert should sit fully seated and flush with the body opening, with no folds, twists, or gaps around the rim.

Before installing, wash the insert with warm water and a mild, non-abrasive soap, then let it dry completely. Applying a light layer of water-based lubricant or renewal powder to the outside of the insert makes seating it noticeably easier, especially on a brand-new body cavity. Slide the insert in slowly, working it in evenly rather than pushing from one side, and smooth the rim outward at the end so the lip sits neatly against the skin.

The removable design is one of the biggest conveniences for ongoing hygiene — after use, simply pull the insert out gently by the rim, wash it separately under running water, and dry it fully before re-installing. For the full cleaning routine, see our sex doll care tools guide.